“Love is, above all else, the gift of oneself…”
When looking for love we really want someone who wants to love us and to share their life with us, someone to share our entire being with, in and out.
Real love means letting someone be who they really are.
Most people love you for who you pretend to be. In other to continue to be loved you keep pretending. Sometimes we get to love our pretence. We’re locked in an image. We are forever performing an act. Everyone gets so used to the image they have created for themselves and they grow attached to their masks. They don’trealize that the love their chains some times they even forget who they really are.
When arguing and/or disagreeing, to be kind with your partner is more important than to be right. Most of the times what we all need is not a brilliant mind that speaks the truth to us, but only a willing heart that listens and wants to know how we feel. Compassion is what makes hearts grow closer and closer to each other. We must be compassionate with the ones we love. We often tend to want to prove how great we are, and to show what a brilliant person we are, with this soon it all turns into a competition to see who is best. In this way rather than being compassionate we judge. Rather than being loving we become rivals.
We must always dare to speak up about the things that bother us, trusting that we are loved instead of fearing disappointment. Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the cruelest words.
This is the way we are made “needy” we must know admit it and live happily with it. God made us this way. Nothing in the nature lives for itself. Rivers don’t drink their own water. Trees don’t eat their own fruit. Sun doesn’t give heat for itself. Flowers don’t spread fragrance for themselves…Living for Others is the Rule of Nature. We are here to love each other.
When we trust nature and we let go we are letting love come our way.
When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need. This is the paradox of letting go. Let go, in order to achieve. Letting go is God’s law…
In all life desires and wishes we must learn from yesterday, hope for tomorrow, but most of all cherish today, look at what you have today and feel how blessed you are. For it is always today, in true reality today is all we have.
When wanting to know whether it is true love or not all you need is to do this check list:
“Love is patient, Love is kind, It does not envy, it does not boast, It is not proud, It is not rude, It is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.”
No relationship is perfect, ever. We some times have to give in, to compromise, to loose the argument in order to gain something greater.
The love that bound us together is bigger than whichever differences we might have. It’s important to remember why we are together.
A great marriage is made out of two great buddies. It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages, are you his/her best friend, if not just that’s your mission, so to stay strong as a married couple.
Passion drives the spirit and the heart. Passion creates the fire that leads us to love. Passion is the flame that keeps the best memories. Let there always be passion, since passion is what makes us feel with intensity, laugh insanely, love with devotion, fly with our dreams and hope for the best.
Let love come your way and when you find your soul mate,
you will know from the first kiss. Treasure that kiss for it is the true seal of Love.
“Love is your destiny”